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Mad Men Watch: Promise Me the Moon

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SPOILER ALERT: Before you read this post, watch last night’s Mad Men, and be sure to keep track of whether they aired all the commercials.

“We’re not chauvinists. We just have expectations.”

And how. “Wee Small Hours” was an episode of Mad Men about characters demanding, demanding, demanding–about the exercise of power and the expectations of privilege. Those demands, and the repercussions on those who failed to meet them, did not just have stressful and heartbreaking effects on the characters. They were also shot through with historical overtones of where America was in 1963, and where it was going.

Start with this: in November–spoiler alert–President Kennedy, from Massachusetts, will be assassinated. LBJ, from Texas, will become President. After that, there will not be another President from the northeast–that is, from the recognizable world of Sterling Cooper and its Eastern Establishment–until… well, unless you count the Connecticut Yankee by way of Texas Bushes, we’re still waiting.

In America, in other words, the center of national gravity is going to shift. Maybe it has already shifted. The East may still have stature in the coming years–and will provide a worthy target for politicians to run against–but the country is increasingly going to be run by different kinds of men. Westerners, Southerners. Men in cowboy hats, men with drawls. JFK asked for the Moon (like Connie), but it will be a Texan and then a Californian (Nixon) who will be around when we get there.

As Betty reads in her New York Times, Henry Francis’s boss, Gov. Nelson Rockefeller, is already losing to Barry Goldwater, who will beat him out for the Republican nomination in 1964. Rocky is not just going to lose: he and his kind–Northeastern liberal blueblood Republicans–will eventually become irrelevant if not extinct. Men like Lee Garner Jr. from Lucky Strike and Connie Hilton, without the schooling or interest in the East Coast niceties, will increasingly be the boss. They’ll have big appetites and ambitions and when they say to jump, they will expect the likes of Don and Sal to ask how high–or to do more.

All of this is a way of saying that this week Don and Sal et al. got a vision of the future, one in which their old centers of power and guarantors of security will be superseded.

That future will be rough, and it will be big, and it will be kinder to some than to others. There will be changes, and expansion, and war, and there is danger in all that, yes, but also opportunity. That must be one reason why Don–who got his taste of California in his self-reinvention, and told the Madison Square Garden guys that it was the future–sees the potential in Conrad Hilton’s business, and lets himself be pushed around by Connie. “I want Hiltons all over the world, like missions,” Connie says. “I want a Hilton on the moon.”

Missions, or maybe embassies. In the ’60s, Hilton Hotels were a sign of American expansion, an extension of American power, an emblem–sorry to go all Ho Chi Minh on you–of American imperialism. Don’s pitch gets this. A Hilton is a sign that Pax Americana has been achieved. It means that the advance troops have been through and put down the dangers and readied a secure bubble for you from whence to survey the world. That hamburger you can get in Tokyo? It might as well be a shield.

Don makes a great pitch, but it’s not enough. Don didn’t deliver the moon. Maybe it was impossible or ridiculous to do so, but he didn’t–he didn’t, therefore, show enough deference, and thus Connie is deeply disappointed. It’s actually been interesting to see the deference that Don has shown to Connie thus far, which is something new for him. Not just answering the midnight calls and burning the midnight oil and traveling on a moment’s notice–Don, trying to figure out Connie, to figure out how to please him, is showing a sycophantic side we haven’t seen before, flattering jokes that may not be funny and idea that aren’t particularly good.

It’s going to be intriguing to see whether he eventually pushes back more, or if the cowboy breaks him. And partial credit for the fascination goes to Chelcie Ross, who is making Connie the most intriguing, bristly corporate heavyweight–”villain” may not be the word but he’s a cagey, scary bastard–since Gerald McRaney’s George Hearst in Deadwood. On the one hand, he uses Don cavalierly, but he also acknowledges his own outsider connection to him: “You didn’t have what they had”–they, the East Coast elites–”and you understand.”

Don is less inclined to push back against the client when it comes to Sal–poor Sal, whom he throws under the bus for rebuffing Lee’s advances. The scene between the two of them is played absolutely perfectly, especially as Bryan Batt passes through every one of Sal’s standard forms of defense–first assuming Don will back him up, then offering to “lay low,” then hoping he can simply say he had a “misunderstanding”–before, devastatingly, being forced to tell Don explicitly what happened, and through it, who he is.

And Don cuts him, cold.

It’s possible, of course, that Don is absolutely right–that he has no way of defending Sal and that Lucky Strike could take all of Sterling Cooper under. Still, and whether or not you adjust for the mores of his time, the way he cut Sal loose was detestable, even by the standards of a liar and cheater.

“You people”–those two angry, cold words say it all. If the first episode of the season left doubt about how far Don’s tolerance of Sal’s homosexuality extended, we got our answer there. Don may like Sal, he may wish him luck, but push comes to shove, he’s another deviant. To Don, it’s incomprehensible that Sal could be sexually harassed by a client: if Sal screws men, why not take this one for the team? Lee’s an available man, so why wouldn’t Sal want to have sex with him? Sal’s answer, “He’s a bully,” might as well be in another language. “What if it was some girl?” “Then would depend what kind of girl it was and what I knew about her.”

It’s clear now what kind of girl Don thinks Sal is–that he is responsible for the fallout for not having given in to Lee, and probably brought it on himself int he first place. In the third season debut, Don moved past whatever personal feelings he had about Sal’s nature and offered him some advice: “Limit your exposure.” Now, exposed, Don cuts him loose, because Sal’s liabilities outweigh his assets. In a way Don is mirroring the way Bert Cooper treated his own secret: when Pete blackmailed Don, Cooper backed Don up, because he was valuable; this year, Cooper blackmailed Don with the same secret, because it was in his interest to do so.

But there are secrets and there are secrets. And one difference between Sal and Don is that Don has amassed enough power to be the one cutting and not the one getting cut. Sal, on the other hand, has tried to thrive by being a good employee and staying under the radar, a sensibility that extends even to his last work on the Lucky Strike commercial. Showing Lee the framed shot of the beefcake-y smoker looking into the distance, he resists the idea of having the actor turn and stare into the camera. It’s too direct. It’s not done. “It could make people very uncomfortable.”

This strategy can only serve Sal for so long, though. By the end of the episode, he’s heartbreakingly packing up his things, including the “Relax…” line drawing of his hunky neighbor that he showed us in season one. In his final scene (and I hope we see Sal again before long), he calls his wife from what I’m guessing is the Ramble in Central Park–a fabled cruising spot. Cut loose from his security, does Sal go farther into the closet, or does he stare directly into the camera?

It’s 1963, six years until Stonewall even happens. Sal’s own struggle parallels the civil-rights movement, which is especially foregrounded in this episode. Besides Don and Suzanne hearing the “I Have a Dream” speech in the car, the news is especially prominent in Betty’s storyline: the irony of her guests decrying segregation as Carla opens the door for more white people at the fundraiser, and Betty’s later telling Carla that the Birmingham church bombing makes her think that “maybe [civil rights] is not supposed to happen right now.” (She may actually have meant to sound sympathetic.)

All this plays out against the ending (or at least it seems like it) of Betty’s flirtation with Henry (the other superseded Easterner, as Gov. Rockefeller’s right-hand man). Why does she finally pull back at the end? She wants, as she said in the previous episode, first kisses–forever. She wants her affair with Henry, as long as it is prospective, and thus ideal. But when it becomes real–as the sotto voce warning from Henry’s associate makes it–it becomes cheapened. When it becomes a matter of reality and details and logistics–in the office? in a hotel?–it becomes “tawdry.” All of which confuses Henry: “I don’t know what you want.”

What does she want, Henry? She wants the moon. Is that so much to ask?

Now for the hail of bullets:

* Harry really reached new heights of spinelessness in the Lee incident. Though he was in a difficult situation, the fact that the only way he could think to handle it was through tail-between-his-legs deference–first to Lee, then to Roger–makes me wonder how long he can hang on, having made one good decision (to grab on to TV), then risen beyond his abilities.

* It’s interesting how Ross plays Connie with a sense of both arrogance and helplessness. In a sense, he’s already conquered the East (through the Waldorf), but having arrived, he feels lost, as if he’s already overextended his empire.

* Speaking of which, Connie mentions that he doesn’t like the sound of “hamburger” and “Hilton” together. Shades of “Hamburger Hill”? Or just a horrible premonition of this?

* Before Don sleeps with Suzanne, she makes the accurate guess that this is something new for him, in that he has slept around so close to home before. Is it nothing more than his attraction to her? Is in over his head, as Roger tells him, and getting careless? Does he want to get caught?

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  • adriaezn

    I think the show is doing a wonderful job of slowly – with each episode – ramping up the emotional pace until the eventual climax (which we assume will be JFK’s assassination, but you never know).

    Also, I didn’t see Harry’s reaction to Lee’s requesting Sal be removed from the project as being necessarily cowardly. What was he supposed to do there? With Sal being as closeted as he is, Harry couldn’t have thought this was anything more than a business matter – or perhaps Sal personally offended him some how (in a more minor way than spurning his sexual advances). I don’t think he ever expected Lee to storm out of the building just upon seeing Sal. Besides, the whole he-was-drunk-and-won’t-remember bit isn’t necessarily without precedent on the show.

    Also, kudos on spotting that Sal’s (hopefully not) final scene was in the Ramble…you certainly know your gay stomping grounds. Also, I know that around this time it was always particularly dangerous to be in such an area, as physical assaults on gay men were common. I even think a few men were killed at the ramble? I’m not entirely sure, but this could simply be a small lead into a more tragic finale for Sal.

  • adriaezn

    Any thoughts on Kater Gordon being let go?

  • pvt98

    “Betty’s later telling Carla that the Birmingham church bombing makes her think that “maybe [civil rights] is not supposed to happen right now.” (She may actually have meant to sound sympathetic.)”

    No, she means it; she is fixing to become a Goldwater Gal because of the spurning.

    Read more: http://tunedin.blogs.time.com/2009/10/12/mad-men-watch-promise-me-the-moon/#ixzz0TjfMhtRz

  • breenbag

    Nice recap!

    I’m hoping that there isn’t a tragic finale for Sal, but things are certainly not looking good. My fantasy: he goes boho, divorces his poor wife, moves to the West Village, and starts up his own design studio … but maybe that’s a bit too progressive for 1963.

    I’d like him to last a while longer on MM, if only for Bryan Batt’s terrific interpretation.

    The show’s overall sense of foreboding is so thick at this point, I’m just waiting for November 22 to be over and done with!

  • http://twitter.com/poniewozik James Poniewozik

    Re the Ramble, here’s a question that occurred to me while watching that I left out of my recap: do we know that Sal was sexually active with men before this (other than the bellboy)? The first season made plain that he was pretty sexually inexperienced with men, if not entirely so. So if he is indeed cruising, would this be his first time, something his firing has driven him to? Has he gone to the Ramble before but never worked up the nerve? I would think that–were he closeted but sexually active–the show would have made a point of it, since it would contradict the way he was portrayed in season one.

  • rhys1882

    Betty’s comment re Birmingham reminds me of comments by people suggesting that gay people wait for gay marriage because maybe “it’s not time” or “it’s too soon.” Would not be surprised if that was an intentional allusion.

    Harry was spineless. What do you do? You tell your boss. Period. In this case, Roger. Roger would have moved Sal off the project, never mentioned a thing to Lee, and everything would likely have blown over. “Do nothing” is definitely the spineless response.

  • http://twitter.com/poniewozik James Poniewozik

    Seems odd, but other than that dunno enough about the situation to judge it.

  • http://twitter.com/poniewozik James Poniewozik

    Oh, and re Harry: maybe cowardly was the wrong word–I didn’t expect him to risk himself to save Sal, nor was it in his power anyway. But he was paralyzed by fear into inaction, and thus ended up making the worst of all possible decisions. Making me again think how lucky he is to have ever gotten into his job in the first place.

  • adriaezn

    I would have to disagree with your thoughts that Betty’s comments regarding Birmingham were any sort of conscious reference to the current debates regarding gay rights. One thing that I think Mad Men has done exceptionally well recently is to show the tragic situations that both homosexuals and blacks were in at this time, while not lumping their experiences together. Honestly, the whole “gay is the new black” argument is simply ridiculous. Mad Men has done a great job of showing the unique pain that members of each group feel. Sal doesn’t face the same struggle that Carla does, but Sal’s struggle is no less painful and tragic. Likewise for Carla.

  • charlieromeobravo

    re: do we know that Sal was sexually active with men before this?

    Given Sal’s reaction to the bell boy AND his sudden appreciation of Ken in The Golden Violin last season, I suspect that he’s not. The show seems pretty good about giving us peeks into the various characters’ private lives to provide pertinent information. I couldn’t identify the park he was in as the Ramble but people in the background made it clear it was a pretty cuisey place. I suspect that Sal’s self loathing got a lot worse after the events in Don’s office. I doubt that Sal’s story will end happily :-/

    re: Harry

    One thing that my wife and I weren’t clear on by the time Sal’s story was done last night was whether Mr Lucky Strikes wanted Sal *fired* or just off the account. If Harry did anything wrong last night it was not going straight to Don or someone with Mr LS’s request. Sal probably could have been off the account and stayed out of sight. Done and done, no tragic fall out.

    If one of the reoccurring themes last night was people in over their heads, you can apply that to SC as a whole. Harry is in a very important position there and he sucks. Don is trying to service Hilton and he’s over whelmed. Sterling and Cooper are both marginal powers in the office now. PPL are just worried about the numbers. Let’s be realistic: Sterling Cooper’s long slow descent into irrelevance with the changing times is becoming more and more obvious each episode.

  • bposullivan

    When Connie tells “you didn’t have what they had,” I think “they” refers not just to the Eastern elites in general, but to Connie’s sons in particular. Connie sees Don as “more than a son” (at this moment, anyway) because Don shares what no actual son of Connie could ever have shared: the experience of having come up from nothing. Don, deeply wanting a father, seems genuinely moved by this, but ends up just reenacting the experience of disappointing and being disappointed by a father figure (as in his vision of his father last week–and, I guess, also as in his conversation with Burt Cooper last week).

  • http://www.simonvinkenoog.nl/beeld/Yogi%20-%20Annelies%20Rigter.jpg yogi

    “Why does she finally pull back at the end?”

    While Betty does want first kisses as the idealized relationship, I think she also wants to be pursued, not the pursuer. In that scene, Henry says that he cannot come to her because she is married; this is when she realizes that it’ll be her active choice in having an affair and not being chased and tempted with all the potential of first kisses.

  • nycgeoff

    Does the episode (and the season as a whole) also presage our current work environment? It seems like more people are working late at Sterling Cooper than ever before, and the 24-hour leash that Connie has on Don sure does seem familiar…

  • thetvobsessed

    Everything seems to be burning all around Don and all he can do is runaway to another woman. Obviously what Don did to Sal was wrong on a human level, but I wonder if Hilton had not pushed him so much in the episode if he would have attempted at least to save Sal. Full review of the episode.

    http://th3tvobsessed.blogspot.com/2009/10/review-mad-men-season-3-episode-9-wee.html

  • mikeijames

    mad men is truly anti-tv television at its best. in any other series, we’d watch the third season bring on an onslaught of new characters to help spice things up. only on mad men do we find ourselves swimming in anticipation because our favorite characters keep dropping like flies. the two mainstays of the early sterling cooper offices — joan and sal — find themselves outside of the elevator doors. though the times have changed, their feeling of suddenly finding themselves on the outside looking in ties in perfectly to the times in which we live today.

    i don’t know how deborah lacey does the “knowing look” so well as carla the housekeeper, but i love how she sees right through both of her employers and their children. in a way, she’s the only one who sees the total picture. she sees how don effects betty and how betty and don effect those kids. and the irony persists, she’s the only one who can’t say anything about it although she’s best able to say something about it all. and that’s mad men in a nutshell.

  • georgiac

    This episode really brought me back to the truth–or a truth–about the time period. Betty goes through with a fundraiser that she’s not interested in, really, to justify her housekeeper having seen her speaking to a man in the entryway of her home. The first words out of the teacher’s mouth when Don knocks on her door are, “Someone will see you.” Sal walks from Don’s office without the comfort of knowing that he could contact human resources re sexual discrimination. The handbags are fun, but what a sexually repressive era!

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